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Custodymate: My Ex-Spouse accessed the mailbox, stole a cheque and cashed it

Undated · 3 min read

When trust is broken within the sacred confines of a marriage, it can have devastating consequences. Such a betrayal not only taints the relationship but also leaves deep scars that may never fully heal. In my own life, I've experienced a betrayal so profound that it shook my very foundation: my ex-spouse accessed our shared mailbox, stole a check, and cashed it without my consent. This act was more than a mere violation of privacy; it was a breach of trust that rippled through every aspect of my life.

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Custodymate: My Ex-Spouse accessed a joint account post separation and withdrew money

Undated · 3 min read

Divorce is a painful journey filled with emotional upheaval, and the complexities of financial matters can exacerbate the situation. Joint accounts, often created with love and trust, can suddenly turn into sources of contention and betrayal. When an ex-spouse accesses a joint account post-separation and withdraws money without consent, it's not just about the loss of funds—it's about the broken trust that represents the disintegration of a partnership. This guide aims to provide an understanding of the underlying causes of such actions, their impact on various aspects of life, and strategies to protect oneself. We'll also include real-life stories, including personal anecdotes from those who have experienced this difficult situation firsthand.

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Access

CustodyMate: My ex isn’t providing me with access to the children according to our court order, what can I do?

Undated · 1 min read

If a court order for access is not being followed, you can bring a motion to ask the court to require the other party to comply. If there are serious problems with access arrangements, the court can impose penalties and, if it is in the child’s best interests, make changes to the custody/access arrangements.

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Mistreated By The System

CustodyMate: Mistreated By System (Top 7 of 10)

Undated · 6 min read

If you find yourself in the unfortunate situation of having to go through a divorce or separation, then you know all too well the pain and mistreatment that can come from it. Unfortunately, even when the dust has settled and the papers have been signed, the mistreatment doesn't always stop.

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Custodymate: Lost in Transition: The Battle of Custody Tracking

Undated · 3 min read

In the complex world of divorce and separation, the issue of child custody often emerges as a highly contentious point. Accurately tracking custody time — including the pick-up and drop-off schedules, detailed records of the time spent with the child, and evidence to support these claims — becomes a crucial aspect of the legal process. This documentation can be the linchpin in court, making the difference between success and failure in a custody battle.

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Custodymate: Lost in Transition: The Battle for Accurate Child Profile Information in Divorce

Undated · 2 min read

The process of separation or divorce is a challenging and often contentious journey. In the midst of legal battles and emotional turmoil, one aspect that is frequently overlooked is the centralization of children's profile information. This includes essential details such as birthdays, school information, medical records, friends' contact information, preferences, hobbies, likes, and dislikes. The absence of such information can lead to misunderstandings and miscommunications, affecting both the children involved and the perception of parental responsibility.

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Custodymate: Locked Out of Life: A Man's Dilemma in Divorce

Undated · 3 min read

In the ever-evolving landscape of relationships, marriage stands as a testament to love and commitment. However, not all unions are imbued with harmony; sometimes, they devolve into chaos, anger, and violence. This blog post unravels a harrowing tale of a man caught in the whirlpool of an abusive marriage, only to find himself locked out of his own life. As he grapples with the decision to protect his partner from legal consequences, he pays a heavy price.

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Custodymate: Locked Away: The Digital Struggle for Court Documents in Divorce Proceedings

Undated · 3 min read

In today's digitally driven world, the expectation for easy access to information is greater than ever. Yet, when it comes to court documents, particularly in the context of a divorce proceeding, the challenge is often far from simple. This paper explores the struggle to obtain court documents, a task that can become a critical issue in any legal battle.

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CustodyMate Ecosystem

CustodyMate: How The CustodyMate Ecosystem Can Help You To Navigate Your Divorce & Separation

Undated · 5 min read

If you're going through a divorce or legal separation, CustodyMate can help you keep track of your custody situation. With CustodyMate, you'll have all the information you need in one place so you can make informed decisions about what's best for your family.

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Custodymate: Impact to the Medical Community: A Surge in Support Systems and Treatment Needs

Undated · 3 min read

Divorce is not merely a legal and familial issue; it's a public health concern. The repercussions of a separation ripple across various aspects of life, and the medical community is not immune to these impacts. When a marriage ends, particularly if it’s contentious, it can lead to a cascade of mental and physical health challenges that require medical intervention. From increased prescription of medications to a surge in therapy sessions, the medical community becomes a pivotal support system.

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Motion To Change

CustodyMate: I want to have a custody or access order changed, what should I do?

Undated · 1 min read

If your order is no longer appropriate, you can have it changed with the other parent’s consent. You can bring a motion to change on consent by filing a Form 15C: Consent Motion to Change with Form 14B: Motion Form. If you cannot agree to the change, you can serve and file Form 15: Motion to Change.

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Travel

CustodyMate: I want to go on holiday with my children outside of Canada. Do I need to have the other parent’s permission?

Undated · 1 min read

Federal authorities will likely require written confirmation of the other parent’s consent before allowing the children to be removed from Canada. Standard consent forms are available from the federal government. If the other parent will not give his or her permission, you may need a court order to permit the travel.

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